Oh! Well there we go, that might be a viable business opportunity then~

Well all have different "faces" we show depending on who we're around and how comfortable we are at the time. Like for example I act different around my family than I do my friends. I act differently with people online than I do with people in real life. As for your situation, it sounds like maybe you aren't very comfortable getting close to a guy. Maybe you've been hurt in the past, and don't want to get too serious with someone and risk getting hurt again?

Like if you just sleep with the guy, there's no promises of commitment or expectations. But if you go on a date with him, suddenly there's the pressure to be your best self and you wonder if he likes the You that's out of the bedroom and you have to come up with THINGS to talk about... not to mention with dinner dates there's more of an expectation of a possible relationship.

Maybe it's a fear of intimacy thing?