- This is the lesson I have been able to learn here I think. Thank you so much for your kind words

There was a slight misunderstanding though, Rose76, I never supported him financially. He is like the man you described - he works, studies, has his projects and is now single.

I find it so hard sometimes to be hurt and angry and heartbroken without blaming the other person, describing my side to other people and not making a "monster" of him. I am so glad you guys understand!