The first couple of times my T misspelled my name it really bugged me. Now I notice and celebrate only those times when he spelled it right! Otherwise, it's just not worth it to me to get angry. I have bigger fish to fry, after all!

I would ask you what else does T do or say that makes you feel unnoticed/invisible? Is this feeling familiar? Does it remind you of any others in your past? Good luck to you!