Also want to add, last Christmas I asked her if she wanted me and my daughter to spend Christmas Eve with her this year. She said no that she would see us on Boxing Day for the family Christmas party. So I made plans with my dad. She has been holding that against me all year, that she will never have a ****** Christmas by herself again and they will be going to Ontario for Christmas this year because of us not spending Christmas with her. I just can't win with her.
She also is constantly putting down and belittling or dad, ever since they split up when I was about 5. She says to this day that he has put us against her but she doesn't understand that she is doing it to herself and pushing us away. Our last phone conversation se yelled at me and called him a bastard.