Respecting oneself makes more sense than loving oneself.

I don't understand the concept of loving oneself, but do believe self compassion is important. In my experience love is something we have and give to others, it's 'outward' rather than 'inward' if that makes sense.

My self-esteem isn't the best for various reasons but I am loved, I do believe I was lucky to find the right partner for me and that some people are simply unlucky.