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Originally Posted by divine1966
My therapist said it is completely fine to limit interaction with toxic relatives to a basic minimum. Quick visits or quick phone calls and no interaction otherwise. If her behavior improves then increase your time wit her. As soon as she starts arguing say you need to leave and leave or hang up. If she asks why tell her why and leave. Unfriend on Facebook
You can't get her to understand and no need to bother.
She picks a fight only if you participate. She can't fight if you leave and not present
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She doesn't need me to say a word when she tries to pick a fight. She goes on and on without me saying anything but I'm tired of the stress and drama.
Now she's saying on fb that when she ends up back in the hospital that she won't tell anyone so if she does, basically we will feel guilty.