Two, First of all good for you on realizing who you are, kudos. Secondly look up the Kinsey Scale Test, though only subjective, it will give you an idea of where you fall on the continuum of sexuality. Thrice, please join our forum here, LGBTQ, you are not alone here at PC in this area.
I am definitely a bi male, I am equally attracted to women as I am to men, I have yet to explore, my bi-ness. I live in a small town where the community isn't out in the open, as far as I know, that and I live in a little fear of losing my position if I come fully out. I am a volunteer for a "Christian" homeless shelter and feel I would be discriminated against. I won't even mention that I just got newly inked; out of fear of termination.
Thankfully I have a few friends that know and understand and don't judge me, for being myself. I also have a great support system that gives me resources, not to mention my friends here at PC.
Now I caution you about looking online for people. I don't know how it is with women. However, I found out that guys are shallow as all get out and all they want is to get laid. I don't even bother looking, I will find someone one day, and the nice thing about being bi (for me) is that I am with someone who is female and is understanding of my bi-ness and accepts me for who I am.
I hope that in some way I have helped you out. I don't live with confusion anymore about my sexuality and I don't really care to live in fear, but it is a price that I am willing to pay. I am above it and I don't let anyone bring me down.