I ended up on the same self publishing website as my BF. The first thing I noticed was the only friends on his list were women. The next thing I notice is the profil pics of most of them are extremely provocative, some nearly pornographic.

Now we already had a go round when I previously discovered inappropriate friendships and behaviour online.

So what was I to think?

Then I see by his online status he is on the website for hours at a time nearly every night - even nights I am asleep in his bed. I see that he has lied to me saying he has gone to bed at one time yet his status shows he's on the website for hours after that. The man hasn't published a story for a year. SO WHAT IS HE DOING THEN?

What am I supposed to think?

Now his phone.... he left his ipad open infront of me and it is apparently sinced to his cellphone. He went out for several hours and he received text after text after text from women. With the ipad infront of my face I could not help but read their sides of the conversations. It was upsetting the conversations I was construing in my head. Some of these were asking to meet up. They seemed far to personal and certainly were not professional conf=versations in nature.

Sigh. I broke up with him but he is accusing me of jumping to the wrong conclusions. He is accusing me of my mental health being the cause for my lack of trust.

I don't think I am wrong to be suspicious at all.