...because we love them so much and don't understand why they would hurt us.

Wow, that struck such a chord with me Daystrom, thank you so much! I wish so much that women could understand this.

Damn, you're so right. I love them so damn much, everything about them. Their little mannerisms, their smile, the way they are so graceful and cute all at the same time. All I want to do is be with them and adore them, hold them and cherish them. I don't understand why all this has to be so hard, why there has to be so much sh--t. It sometimes feels as though women don't want to be loved, almost like they view men who love as pathetic and weak, and it seems they prefer these guys who beat them and treat them badly, because it's somehow more fun or more entertaining. What on earth is it that they see in these guys? Strength? Masculinity? Power? Control? Do they feel more safe with a guy who can beat up and kill other guys? Maybe they feel love is just too boring, not enough adrenaline in the relationship, or something.