Hi Moonkin,
When I was a teenge male my hormones and sex drive was raging out of control and I experienced a lot of the same thoughts you have. When in high school alot of the other guys in school were always talking about sex and the other girls and who's pants everyone was getting into. I never found myself fitting into that peer group...but eventually I found girl friends who wanted to date me for who I was and I wasn't one of the Jocks trying to score....Although when I met the right girl and the relationship
went well an we were comfortable with each other sex did happen.
In the mean time I would suggest Masturbation when your sex drive is Kicking..many of the sex therapsts suggest this and Its not Taboo like it used to be...Your a normal human being with needs and you can take your time with dating....Hope this wasn't too BLUNT....But never let yourself be pressured into any type of sex with anyone.....abstinence is better...now a days with sexually transmitted diseases..Especially AIDS...which affects everyone now a days...(so if you do have sex ALWAYS MAKE SURE YOU PRACTICE SAFE SEX) TO!! I hope this helps you....