Yes you should talk to your psychologist. When other people have been in control for a long time they will get upset when you start to take some of that control back. So they may use fear as a way to manipulate you and keep that control. It's like a relationship where one partner has used psychological abuse to control the other. An abuser will often convince a partner that the outside world is dangerous and scary and that they are safer under their partners control. When a T tries to intervene, the abusive partner will push back even harder, saying the therapist is evil, when really, the abuser is the dangerous one.