I know many people in your situation, slbest--some at the other end though, where their parents expected absolutely nothing and they suffered mightily from that, and a couple where they just cannot even talk to their parents about certain subjects that make their parents feel judged. I guess I'm saying that this is unlike any other parent child relationship. Definitely get connected with a support group. You'll find a lot of similar issues.

Before talking to your dad, I would work through some of that anger with your therapist, though. You have a right to feel the way you do.