finding the rigth bra is really important for your body and for your own well-being. I had the same problem as you. I ended up going to get a bra-fitting at a good underwear-store. Of course I had to let another person measure me etc, and that felt a bit intrusive. But I told myself that it was like going to the doctor... She discovered that I had the complete wrong bra-size, and I would never have known if I did not have a fitting done. She helped me find a good bra that made my boobs look great, and made me look a lot slimmer. The bra I ended up bying was almost out of my price-range, but it was worth it. Top quality, and now I have bougth two more of the same on e-bay, to get it a bit cheaper. In my opinion, every woman should have a proper bra-fitting! Getting the rigth bra made me feel better about my body, and a lot more comfortable.