The name calling is awful on her part.

Maybe it is good to get a different phone number and work on the public transportation to reach your own doctors.

I've never in my life ever heard of a doctor nor therapist telling anyone that alcohol consumption is obviously because of another person, lest you are holding her against her will and forcing her to drink under duress.

Just because she says she's telling people atrocities of yours, doesn't mean others are firm believers.

Work on you. At least you are away from her. Maybe change email accounts or block her address as next step?