Wants, hon...I've met sev men online who were not good at writing, and I have to tell you, in my own experience, this is not good! I dismissed the grammatical errors, the misspelled words, the lack of articulation, and actually dated them (there are three I can think of!) My opinion now is that if a person has not learned to write and express himself well, he is probably not going to be a good date or, even more than that...potential mate.
I sound pessimistic, don't I!!!! Sorry. But you being a writer, will probably find this fella deficient on many levels.
Love
Patty