My pdoc and T will talk when I ask them to or if something comes up. The pdoc likes to hear from T, but T usually has to make the call.

As far as meds go - I take meds for ADD and bi-polar. I'm not sure if ppl are thinking you can't take meds for both at the same time, but I do and it seems to work without conflict.

I can't get a straight dx either. Both the T and pdoc don't like using them. So I've heard lots of different things: anxiety (this seems to be agreed upon), bi-polar, major depression, ADD, and then there's discussion about BPD with T, but T doesn't want to call me that though I see more and more of myself there - maybe not strong enough to be BPD though. Dx get confusing. Sometimes I wish we could just say - I have X so I'll do/take Y and everything will be OK. Doesn't seem to work that way - we're way too complicated.