Milly, have you had sex before for cigarettes or money? You seem so blase about this that I'm wondering if you've done this type of thing before.

If you have....that is in the past. You control today. Giving it up for a smoke is really, really not the thing to do to increase your self-esteem and his respect for you.....trust me on this one, I'm older and just about seen everything that a boy can do to disrespect a girl

How OLD are you, Milly? Consider this, if you are too young to buy them.....you're too young to smoke.......OR is it a money problem? If it is, find a job that will give you some spending money and some self-esteem. You don't have to give it to anyone for a cigarette!!

xoxo pat