I understand what you are saying. I have been so insecure in my last couple relationships. With my ex fiancé, I know he wasn't cheating on me but I would go berserk if he had female friends (not that he hung out with, just one speaking to him on Facebook) and here's the kicker; I could have as many guy friends as I wanted, in my mind. That isn't right. I should have never been that way towards him. I think that what has been said above about dealing with our insecurities is extremely important. I am trying to undo ten years of insecurities and it's difficult to change that negative way of thinking, but I believe it's possible if we try.

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