Please ....take care of YOURSELF, rather than the T's feelings/boundaries at this tough time.

I hope you know that it is her JOB to alert you to boundary crossings but in this case, like everyone, I don't think you erred.

You seem to be very much in touch with what is going on in your outward tangible life and your inside state.

You seem to be doing way more than "coping" as your mood state button shows....

Hang in there!!!