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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
The biggest problem I see is your relationship. The fighting and the dependency... Also seems like there's a lack of trust and respect. Is this a long-term committed relationship? If so, I think you should tell him about the BPD. If it's not, then don't tell him. But from what you wrote, your relationship sounds unhealthy. I know you're dependent on him, but maybe you should make sure whether or not this relationship is what you need.
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My relationship is not the problem but my 'borderline' mentality is. It is a committed relationship ; we want a future together. We fight over little things sometimes but it's not really screaming or violent but we mope around. But even knowing that the fight isn't serious, I get scared and very anxious and often become ill at the thought he may leave me.
He is the man I have always needed in my life. He's loving and respectful. But I became too dependent on his love, he's the first one to make me feel like this.