I think it's important not to blame God for things that aren't His doing.
I truly don't understand...really... why any one would run away from a loving God... which mine is... (maybe if you know of a hateful god, then yes, run?)

Just because I believe in an "after physical body life" doesn't mean I believe it is all good after we leave this body... I think that is what one needs to ponder, not the death or dying itself, but what of your energy--who you are---once you leave your physical body. There are just as many dark stories of those who came back from dying who had been in what they call "hell" and torment... and who turned to the God of love.... be sure to read those writings also.

I still say it's a choice...what occurs to you once this body dies... your choice...but you have to make it before this body goes.