in my original email I told her I was at the end of my rope and I couldn't deal with things anymore and what had happened. Her response was that she understood why I reacted the way I did as it was normal. While it was stressful she knew I would be fine...that was it. Then when I found out what happened with my other child not feeling safe at college T responded that what happened at campus is very common and that she would be fine. After that I stopped contacting her.