Just because others don't see it doesn't make it right. i can do it on my thighs and the world doesn't see and i never have to show our T either when it's there. It does help with the pain. But i know it isn't right so that means it must be wrong. If someone else comes up with some way to help me so i don't even want to do it then i'll stop doing it. i really don't want to feel like a freak or have something to hide. For now it is still a way for me to cope. nona