((((((((((milly))))))))))

I'm sorry you're hurting. Let it out hun. Scream, kick, shout, break some glass. Do whatever you need to do.
Don't stand back and take in other peoples judgement and criticism. They are just ignorant, insensitive s**ts.
Everytime someone labels you or says something bad too you, remember your PC family, and how much we care for you.