Are there issues, diagnoses that says well you have problems with people? Is this attributed to your childhood pain, probably so? Does that have to trap you into a lifestyle of being perceived as a problem person, no get educated on why you have changed tell the important people also don't worry about what people say. Be a problem solver at work so that you don't run away from conflict do the best that you can in that area of life all else doesn't matter. You can remove yourself from people, the only place your forced to take it is at work, then their are ways you can be heard and not have that fear of losing your job. That is why is it important to have accommodations based on what you are dx with that way people might be a little more understanding if it comes to that and other reasons. You don't have to tell a soul your back story why you are the way you are...As long as you can do the job using the accommodations provided that is all that matters. I wish I would have had this an other perspective years ago I might not have to had taken myself off the shelf as a disabled person. It was way more than problems with relationship for me.