The best thing I know of is to call the Suicide Hotline, Hun. They'll know just how to deal with him/it. When someone is serious about what they're thinking, not much other than an intervention will work.

Please remember to take care of YOU through this. Stay safe, ok? BTW, I've missed you! How are you doing? Keep us posted, ok?

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