Sweetheart.....just because something horrible happens in others lives doesn't mean you are selfish for what you are going through in your life. Your life doesn't stop for that tragedy hon. It compounds your feelings I know.

There is room for you to go through your own issues and at the same time feel badly for those who are affected by the tragedy. You are not being selfish.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((( jennifer ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I hope you feel better soon!

xoxoxo
sabby