Hello, im new. I have adhd, but my question is about something else.

I moved into a lady's house a couple months ago now. At first I just thought she was eccentric, but now im getting worried. I dont dislike her, she just makes me feel uncomfortable.

Do any of these things strike you as strange?

- This first one is hard to explain. I noticed that she parrots what she hears. somebody will tell her something and the next day she speaks of it as if she knew it for ages and is teaching this new information. even if -i- am the one who told her someth8ng, she will tell me it the next day like she knows it all and i didnt know it. she will hear someone say they dont or do like something and pretty soon she will say she hates/loves that thing too, for the exact same reason.

- she wont use her dishwasher at all. today she told me to stop using the dish drainer and just immediately dry dishes with paper towels and put them away. I said that is wasteful, just let them air dry. she said its her house and she wants them dried her way.

- she said i could put my own window ac before i moved in. then after i moved in she changed her mind and said no. now she said i cant use the central air because it runs up the electricity. so i have no way to cool off at all.

- she said full laundry and kitchen priveleges, but she looks annoyed when i cook or use the dishes, and told me to only use the weakest washer setting because it uses too much water. my clothes dont get clean on that setting.

- she also got offended when i declined her cooking even though i said i dont like that kind of food many times. she keeps insisting i 'try' this or that, but when i offer to buy or make dinner she refuses to try any of it because she doesnt like it. now i dont care, it doesnt bother me. so why would she get offended if i do the same? i think its really weird.

- she complains about the electricity a lot like shes guilting me or hinting for me to chip in, even though the rental agreement says utilities included and im already paying overpriced rent for that neighborhood.

- she has a certain beleif she follows and insults other peoples beleifs, then says shes respectful of all people. i told her more than once that what she says is offensive and she ignores me.

- she interrupts, asks a question and doesnt let me answer, walks into my room and wakes me up without any concern for my rest or privacy. she wants me to drop what im doing to pay attention to her. she also enters my room when im not home.

- she says she will do something, then the next day changes her mind. small and significant things both. even on rental conditions which annoys me. ive also caught her in lies and i think she acts forgetful to cover it up. what is weird is that the lies are about insignificant things nobosy would care about.


There are more things, but this changing her mind all the time about almost everything is really weird to me. the repeating things she hears is even stranger.

Either way, i think im going to move because im very uncomfortable, but is she just an average eccentric person, or does she have some sort of PD?