I took that one relationship quiz to see if my husband is a loser or a winner. Well, I scored a 24. Which means he's a loser. I don't think he's a loser at all. I just think he's not exactally the right one for me. I have been with him for 6 years now...been married for 5. I do love him but not the way i should. I love him because sometimes he is a great man, he can be affectionate. But most the time he pushed me and his kids away. The times when he is affectionate is when he's horney. Kinda sad really. For year i have thought about leaving him but im to weak to do it. I always wounder how would he feel if i did and i don't want to hurt him. I don't know. He just don't know me anymore and i can't be myself when im with him. There is a lot to the story but i will know what to do in time.