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Originally Posted by Nike007
I'm sorry you had to go through this. I am having the same difficulty. I would ask if they were busy and they'd say not this week, maybe next week. And I said let me know when you are free and they would never let me know. I would keep asking and they would say I'm busy of some sort, but my siblings said they saw my friend shopping with her parent for groceries one time. I don't know if I'm being rejected or if they are busy or telling the truth. We couldn't hang out all of summer because they were busy the entire summer. And now, I don't really care if people say they can't come because I expect them not to come anyways. It's just because I am use to people rejecting me all the time. It has made me lose hope. Hope you find out what's happening with your friend. And no, the explanation given was bs, and don't listen to them. People should love you for whom you are, not what they want you to be.
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Wow, what you describe is what happens to me exactly! And, that's what's so frustrating, you can't work out if they are busy or lying.
But, I also always think, why can't
I be
that friend they go shopping with for example?
There always seems to be someone already, and I am not needed in that same capacity.
There is no room in their life for me. There seems to be no room in anyone's life for me.
I know I'm not entitled to be in their lives, but, I just wish I could be that person in someone's life, that close, that important. I know I don't deserve it, I just wish I knew how those people managed to get so close to the person I want to get close to too.
I'm sorry guys, I know I'm really pathetic.
