Dear T,

I think what I'm realizing about my needs list, is the past as learning experiences that have shaped me. Positive lessons. Was realizing as I waited in a line, spotting someone that had resemblance to my very first boyfriend. Got me thinking about the very last and where he shaped me. Having a narcissistic father, naturally, I've quite a void of my own. So, I thought about the men that I've loved and what they've given me with that fill. The last, gave me the confidence to firmly believe that my value as a woman is not what happens between the sheets. Far from it. He was an important, post domestic violence step for me. No seeking, for the sake of seeking. These men, loom large as a boost to my sense of self value. Not many, but they certainly, have brought something to myself.

Me