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Nike007 · Oct 14, 2015, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by StbGuy

Wow, what you describe is what happens to me exactly! And, that's what's so frustrating, you can't work out if they are busy or lying.

But, I also always think, why can't I be that friend they go shopping with for example?

There always seems to be someone already, and I am not needed in that same capacity.

There is no room in their life for me. There seems to be no room in anyone's life for me.

I know I'm not entitled to be in their lives, but, I just wish I could be that person in someone's life, that close, that important. I know I don't deserve it, I just wish I knew how those people managed to get so close to the person I want to get close to too.

I'm sorry guys, I know I'm really pathetic.

Exactly. I wish I could, but I am not sure.

Same. I feel this type of thing with one friend. She'll be like "sorry, I'm busy" but they'll be hanging with another friend type of busy. Even if I asked if we could hang out x day. Maybe I'm too late. No, it's probably because I'm no fun because I have no idea what I'm suppose to do.

I'm sorry. I feel the same way as you. I feel like no one wants me to be with them or try to add me to their lives because they already have someone there. I don't want to replace them, but it is too much for the people I like to add someone else in. Ugh.

Same. And you aren't pathetic. Well, I don't think you are. I suffer with the same problem too. I watch other people becomes friends with the person I want to be friends with and I'm like "how?". I don't understand how it works. I always wish I find someone important in my life. I don't think I have found that person yet.

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