Hi there --

Congratulations on giving some serious thought to what you want out of a relationship and life. If you love this man, perhaps the relationship is worth working on? Would he ever agree to go a counselor? Are you in a position to go alone to help you sort things out?

I wouldn't attach too much important to an online or magazine quiz. It's given you good for thought, but it is probably not a solid foundation for making a potentially life-changing decision.

Best wishes with this.