Hi Patty -- I don't think all men at churches are churchy guys. There's open-minded denominations such as Science of Mind (which is NOT scientology), Unity, Unitarian and Society of Friends. There's also metaphysical groups such as Theosophy Society. Even if you don't meet The Guy, it will get you out a bit more.

I try to get to a monthly women's dinner at a Science of Mind church, unless work has piled up. I've been going to a Theosophy meeting, but I think I will be switching to Center for Jung Studies, as soon as it starts back up in the Fall. As the Stones sang, "You can't always get what you want, but if you try, sometimes, you get what you need."