I'm sorry to hear about your husband KathyM .I hope it's good news in September. It doesn't sound as though your friend was very understanding about your difficulties.

I'm not quite sure what you're saying to me in relation to my situation.It certainly isn't a case of my former friemd getting pulled in all directions with other people.She has an online relationship which she's obsessed with but no other real life friends. (Well none,now she doesn't have me!).