Maybe if you consider your past situations as learning experiences, it will help you continue with your life. It is now in your past. When you get into situations like this again, you can think about what happened & then act in a way that will not give you the same results. We all learn from our experiences. That is how we grow & continue improving ourselves & our lives. That is how children grow. They experience things they don't like & find you how to act in order not to feel that way again. They continue with their lives, growing & experiencing.

Go on with your life & plan a success path, remembering along the way what didn't work. Don't try to force the past to work, It is good to be sensitive, but not overly to your detriment. In other words, try not to take things too personnaly. It is just how life goes & everyone has those experiences in one way or another. Put your HURT in the past & don't dwell on it. Go on with your life. It can only get better if you have learned from the problems you are experiencing now.

Some relations just aren't meant to be & you can't FORCE them, so don't try. You end up only letting yourself get hurt.

You can go on