((Terry))
Your wife has an illness. Moving and buying her things will not fix it. You must go to Al anon and I think if you get a therapist for YOU, it may help as well. You sound depressed. There is help out there for you but you must seek it. No mistake coming here, we are here for you.
You may also find some support below in the individual forums, for depression, addictions, etc.
Good luck and keep coming back. We care.