Hi G, I just saw LM for the first time yesterday for spiritual direction, and she invited me to the women's mini retreat at her house tonight. This is going to maybe sound weird, but I hope you are not going to be there this evening. One, it would be weird to start travelling in one of your social circles. I would be seeing you in a totally different context from therapy, and I think I would find that unnerving to see you outside of your role as therapist. Two, I wouldn’t know how to act. I would feel weird having you see me outside of therapy as well. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I saw you around town, like at the grocery store or something. It would be (again) weird, but it wouldn’t be the same kind of weird as being at a two-hour event with you there.