i wrote a lengthy reply but it would be of little use. No point.

Different therapies, different ideologies.

Thank you generously sent to posters who were supportive, you were helpful. That is what this place should be about, support.

i so badly want to just have my say, but for the sake of peace i won't.

in distress i withdraw... sometimes assumptions should not be made... others carry burdens so large and heavy, so close to the edge they tread. Words should be a hand held.