This happens to me though usually we've met up a few times before. Kind of makes me afraid of being myself knowing that almost everyone [my father often included] will just *forget* about a next time. I'm the annoying one who tags along behind them whilst they try to lose me in an ally, despite having invited me to come along. Neurotypicals are strange, they are nearly incapable of pure honesty so *put up* with us then blame us for it. If they have a problem then say, we can explain our side of it/why it's that way/find ways around it. Being Autistic, we don't have the perception that they have and can't tell when something's up, they need to let us know