I honestly don't want a divorce but my husband wants kids and I don't, I'm 43 years old
In case you wanted to know, we've been married 17 years and I love my husband I'd be lost without him, really lost, but does that mean he shouldn't be allowed to have kids with someone who he can have his own kids with? We cannot have kids the regular way with me anyways we need to have a surrogate or adopt. So I'm trying to ask how on earth to make these kinds of big decisions