I could be wrong Gerber but I wonder if his chit chatting is part of forming a bond with you? I know that it took time for me to trust mine enough to reveal anything.

Almost a year to tell him about some sexual abuse I suffered. We did a lot of the general talking for awhile and mixed in how I was feeling and talking about my negative thoughts.

That is what I needed and he knew that. Maybe yours is doing the same?

I know how hard this process can be. Talk to him about what you posted here and see what he says...good luck!