thank you... that is supportive. The chit chat is good for bonding, and i enjoy it... he's a nice guy with a compatible sense of humour, i think we'd get on great in other circumstances... but the reason i mention it is that if i go deeper, if i form the deeper connection and dependency... then i am concerned about time frames... and only then. Right now it's not too big a deal, not yet anyway. Once per week is ok, but if we go deeper i worry about it not being enough. The crisis catch up would have to be reduced and that can only happen with increased sessions.