Hi Kathy M

I know enough to know that much of my friend's struggles are to do with her upbringing.I also know that although she knows that deep down,she'll do anything to distract from facing it.When I say that it's not a criticism at all......coming to the realisation that your own parents have actually caused your problems is huge for anyone to face and I don't blame her one bit for trying to distract from it.We've had some pretty deep conversations though and deep down,she knows.

I think we're out of contact now because I expressed my concern about a current issue in her life.A concern which she accepts and acknowledges but doesn't want to hear.

She really hasn't got anyone who long term genuinely cares for her. I do ,which is why I'm bothering to write this now even though we're no longer in contact.Which is why I worry about all this stuff.