I find it shameful and also a sorrow to be 30+ and still a virgin. As it´s quite uncommon I would like to hear from others in the same situation, being 30+ old and still a virgin.

I think I have lost so much time, the years have just passed by and I have never taken the step to even date. I don´t know why exactly, I´m not disabled and I think I look like "everyone else", nothing special or odd.

I wouldn´t feel comfortable just chatting and dating, it´s not my style and I wouldn´t sleep with anyone just to get rid of my virginity. I don´t think it´s something "beautiful" about being a virgin at this age and it´s not because of that I´ve stayed a virgin.

I don´t have a social phobia either but at the moment I don´t have any friends and I have for long had trust issues with people. I often find people deceitful and I want a real deep connection to feel it´s worth hanging out with people. Perhaps that´s a clue to why I´ve stayed a virgin.

Whatever it depends on it´s a sorrow and a shame and I would like to share this with people in the same situation.