Okay, now that I think about it, maybe she isn't so much a narcissist or someone on the NPD spectrum. Maybe she is, but after re- reading the description for histrionic personality disorder, I wonder if that may actually fit her better. She's always about attention seeking behavior right down to the things that come out her mouth and the way she dresses. She only seems to be comfortable when she's the center of attention and her behavior fluctuates according to whatever brings her closer to being the center of attention. So, I'm curious... If anyone else is up to it or just bored enough, please look up the descriptions for NPD and HPD and tell me what you think. (Besides I'm playing armchair psychiatrist which I really need to stop doing now). Lol