it is a tremendous burden upon you to have to assume the "father" role in the family. have you talked to your mother about this?

do you have a therapist? i think, after going over this in my mind, that you might be the one in the family who would really benefit from seeing someone......

it would be hard for a young man to be "everything to everyone"....you need some time for yourself and specifically time that you aren't "fathering" people........xoxox pat