hmmm... interesting. DIfferent interpretation of what i mean by connection. Kind of the same but different. i'm looking first for an intellectual connection, like a fusing of brain.. hard to define but almost tangible when it happens.

the emotional connection.. i need that tenderness sure.. but for me it means he can see, he can hear... he can connect to what i can't openly give... then i feel the link between us.

i wouldn't tolerate a parent type connection at all.. oh boy, like to see him try that!