thank you jan........ ((((jan)))) ..... no i dont feel like i can talk to my boss now...... like i said to pat he just gave me that raise....... and even though he did that and said how happy he was with me he still points out any little mistake and talks to me (and all his employees for that matter) like i'm stupid. he's a hard guy to work for, the longest anyone has worked for him is about 2 years and she has told me alot of stories about how hard he is to work for.

the new employee..... she mentiond the other day that she asked for more than what he originallly offered.... so i'm thinking probably she is making what she said based on what he was offering for the position....

mostly i just hate feeling like this. i thought i was getting better but i feel like crap now.