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you are so strong!!!! i can't handle dealing with just myself!!! much less someone else's sadness!!!
you can't feel bad for what you said. i'm not married, but i'd think in a marriage there's a partnership...a sharing of each other's burdens....you have to let each other know what you're feeling or it just won't work....
in just the little you wrote - i see an enormous love! you will both get through this!!
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